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Acomedido is the skill of paying attention to others and helping when they need it. So it's not just doing a chore or task because someone told you to, but rather looking around and seeing what needs to be done and then acting.
SHOW – Make sure that young children have regular and predictable access to everyday chores. Avoid shooing them off to another room or outside to play. Instead, invite them to come over and be close to you while you work, so that they can learn by watching and occasionally pitching in.
ENCOURAGE – If a child asks to help, let them! If the task is simple, step back and let them have a shot at it. Don't start instructing; for small children, words are lectures—and confusing ones at that. Watch what the child does and try to build off their effort.
STAY CALM – No need to scare them. Tell the child to watch while you do the task.
REQUEST HELP – ask children to fetch an item, hold something that helps get the job done (like a flashlight), stir food, carry things, and clean up.
(Parents)